I've spent much of my life in technology — building software, companies, products, ideas, and occasionally messes.

But the software was never really the part that held me. It was what happened between people when everything was on fire.

Eventually that became the whole thing: what happens when people stop bracing quite so hard — against life, against work, against themselves.

This site is where a lot of that looking ends up.

‍Writing lives here when I have something to say. Mostly things I’ve noticed, usually after I stop trying so hard to notice them, rather than anything you should do.

A crazy blend of stories that oddly belong together because they belong to the same life.

There's also some photography. And soon, some food and some peace.

I’m not especially interested in teaching people what to think.

I’m more interested in what becomes visible when thought loosens a little.

I speak, write, and have conversations with people about the kinds of things you’ll find here. If something resonates, you’re welcome to reach out.